Love in ideal and reality
coolpogirl | 24 November, 2009 02:27Love in ideal and reality
Love of ideal, want, accompany, in about lover, listen to her act like a child, let her to be mischievous constantly always, inquire after one's well-being with her, let her add the clothing and reduce the clothing Share somebody's cares and burdens for him and solve problem, give counsel for him, sets everything up for him We among reality can morning and evening,it accompany constantly, last ends of the earth even. But " when two feelings are if for a long time, in the morning and evening " .
The love in the love ideal in ideal and reality is wanting to be given to he or her best life who is one's own, the best present, the most expensive ornaments We may not be certain to have that condition to allow us to spend freely in this way in realistic! We in diligent struggle, for bright future, for being each other life more!
The love in the ideal, always think two people get along happily, the happiness is accompanied, do not quarrel over, coexist harmoniously We fall into the convention unavoidably in realistic, bicker to the trival matters, jealous for minor matter, quarrel over the individual character But we are learning to tolerate, learn to forgive, our emotion is in break-in!
The love in the ideal, it is the philtrum dragons and phoenixes to always want to look for a lover, the elite of the men, the masterpieces of the women Reality someone outside the people, have mountain outside the mountain, than have! But one's own lover is the best forever in one's own eyes, love is blind!
The love in the ideal may really have differences with reality always, the ideal is bright, and reality is cruel; But perhaps the ideal one does not suit you, but that suited you is not perhaps in your ideal, choose yes you, the heart belongs to you!
Love one for being predestined
Have you discovered to? The feeling of the love, always felt very happy at the beginning, did not always feel lonely any more at last. Someone thinks of you, longs for you at least, no matter what is done, can only be together, it is good. But slowly, as mutual understanding being the deeper, you begin to find the other side's shortcoming, then one problem continues one and happens, you begin to be irritated and tired, even want to escape. Someone says that is picking up the stone in just as the love, always want to find a suitable and one's own one, but how do you know when to find? She suits you, then do you suit her again? In fact, the love is just as rubing the stone, perhaps just you were not the satisfaction when finding, but people are flexible, a lot of things can change, so long as you have courage intentionally, instead of picking up the unknown stone everywhere, it would be better to waste the stone had oneself bright and polish well, do you begin to rub?
Someone says: While drinking, it is the most comfortable that six points of drunk ones are tipsy. While having a meal, seven points of full sense of achievement are the most comfortable. If you continue, take also, can the stomach will be uncomfortable probably, totally lose the fun of having a meal. When you love a person, the love reached eight fen absolutely just just well. All expectation and hope is seven or eight fen, two or three fen is used for loving oneself. If you still continue more love, will possibly give the other side a heavy pressure, let each other and gasp for breath, has totally lost the fun of the love. The friend asked me that day: How make, can be regarded as and love man on earth? I tell him smiling: Love of everybody view different in fact, getting right to shout, convince by patient analysis, afraid wrong to become and mislead instead! If you are perplexed for love, perhaps this following passage can give you some enlightenment: Love a person, will understand, should open and solve too; Apologize, should express one's gratitude too; Admit a fault, should correct one's mistakes too; Show consideration for, should show understanding too; Accept, but not stand; Tolerant, but not connive at; Support, but not control; Salute, but not interrogate; Pour out, but not accuse; Unforgettable, but not forget; Exchange each other, but not everything is explained; Pray for quietly for the other side, but not to a great deal of requirements of the other side; Can be romantic, but don't waste; Can lead along by hand at any time. Don't say good-bye if you accomplish, even you love man no longer at will, cherish the memory of too, but will not cherish hatred ~~
I nothing does not understand, love or like one only predestined sometimes in fact ~~
Xiang Ai, eight points of feet
Unless love by one very much, unless will leading by the nose he, evil spirit battle while ordering,at all can't oneself. From then on, you had not had one's own thought, had not had one's own happiness, anger, grief and joy, you regard him as the centre, follow him when together, you are the whole world; Not when with him, the world is him.
Love a person very much, will stand him unprincipledly, he gets used to this kind to connive at slowly, have devotion to regard you as him, will feel you to be very irritated, no individual too, even begin to despise, I am afraid I have been a poor host, do not respect you
Love a person very much, you are tantamount to a candle, burn disregarding own safety, it is only light and heat tried to get for the moment. Wait for the candle to burn off, you have nothing. And the other side is only a flashlight, he can put the new battery constantly, keeps vigor forever.
Love a person very much, it is kind that he will get used to you to him, and has forgotten oneself should be paid, have forgotten you need to receive the equal repayment equally too --He is totally spoilt by you. Don't think you love the other side he can love 10 of you too very much, love was unreasonable, so frequently, the love is unequal.
No, the ones that don't like liking alone are forgotten oneself completely. The so physical and mental love should only appear in the novel, the love in all desperation that this society the less welcomes. Give him breathing space, leave a leeway for oneself too --The love that the moth puts out the fire, no doubt let people feel majestic when going on, when he becomes, how do you tidy up the wolf membership of taking a place? Put into so many, could you face that heavy loss?
So, loving a person mustn't like getting ten fen, eight fen has been already enough. Two fen left, is used for loving oneself. But 100,000 reason to love him it fights to be a reason to love him too!
Love me, not really taking too much, eight fen is enough. Having lacked, I will be sad, prove I do not have enough in your weight at heart, it is not enough to love me yet for you; And many, will injure me, because besides the love, we need life and friend, too much, will make me at a loss. Love me, only need eight fen, treasure me, believe in me, and what I reciprocated to you will be loving you too, treasure you, believe in you!
A in fact accurate one say, in love to take eight only, love and happy the love. The love very much, let us unable to bear each other, from the marriage of going of love, it is not a person's choice, the love is two people's business, the marriage is the mutual trust, forbearing and conciliatory, and understand, you love him, give him two points of freedom, the space believing in each other, love me, please love eight fen, everybody has one's own world, but don't injure the other side, eight points of love, not incomplete, but perfect!
The life is a kind of course
Dense coffee and tea, it is vividdest and bitter and fragrant to only sample and can feel it carefully.
People are from young to old and feeble, there is far different scenery at every stages. Thus the life is then a series of development. In this course, people have experienced that should experience, just this course begins and terminates the difference without any, but course with real meaning for life.
Its result of doing a thing is no doubt important, but I think, the course of doing something is more important, result ready we will happy after all, but course to can let life of us substantiate. The last result of people's life must be the death, in fact the life is nonsensical, oneself give life one meaning that hope realize just, so course to enjoy life a kind of meaning.
The most important thing is to be self-controlled as the ordinary person, when close to the coda in course of the lifing, turning one's head on the road that oneself passed by, you only say one sentence: My efforts, has struggled, not repentant that this is grown. At least, your life bears although not rich but energetic fruit. Only a sad one is that the life can not come again, make sure not to be hasty, the steady step put, move ahead actively! The life is very very brief, the life limits very much, and we should excavate out to U.S.A. from this short limitation of urging to become reconciled. So long as live meaningfully, course of the life is a kind of beauty.
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