The wife is heavy
coolpogirl | 24 November, 2009 02:32
The wife is heavy
The heart has complex wife in order to duplicate each other
That morning, all gram get up getting late, some worry about, have not notice stop the taxi, no, a young woman has stretched out hands more early than he nearby.
The taxi stops at two people's side, his one step steps wanting to draw back the door in the past, the driver leans out the head and stops him, say: "It was this young lady that stopped first. "
The heart has wife a bit uneasy of complex in order to overcome, say: "I am sorry. " That woman smiles, say: "See you worrying very much, please go first. " All gram hurry, decline, come and go, driver say: "If is a direct route, you left together. "
Two people getting distracted, then say, want place that go, very skillful, in the adjoint office building mutual company.
They know in this way, the woman is the prune.
Meet again, the fast food restaurant among two office buildings, they each goes to have lunch with the colleague. Such touching the surface not unexpected, see, nod, laugh tacitly.
Sit on the relative desk, all hands of grams touch the damaged edge of chair unintentionally, have rowed and bled. Not waiting for him to realize, the prune opposite has already passed the clean napkin. He goes to connect, the finger touches her finger.
That morning for the future, he begins to wait at the crossing consciously or unconsciously, all gram are on this risible woman, feel the scarce gentleness in a kind of oneself life, has fallen into slowly.
Her family, small space is clean, comfortable. Her culinary skill, captive's all stomach of gram; Tiny and gentle little trick, the heart capturing him completely.
This is dull happiness that he has imagined, but after getting married so long, got at another woman's place.
The thought of divorcing, he has flashing all the time on the way home.
His life begins to wave between prune and marriage, though wife Jiang Jing's weight is obviously a bit lighter, but add the son, seem balanced.
He and prune discuss Lijiang. It is said in the good place where Jack shall have Jill, all shall be well, that lets at a meeting.
And Jiang Jing hears the husband should go on business, immediately unhappy, do not wait for him to leave, lead children to come home first by oneself, even luggage is not tidied up for him. Just this time, he has already no longer minded.
Lijiang is very beautiful. But day like the honeymoon have degree on schedule, wife river quiet and getting ill, bad cold, has already lived in the hospital, but there is strength that phones to lose the temper to him, blame him for making a lone man of her in hospital; Still those longwinded nurses are stupid, the attitude is still not good, bully her for falling ill.
Make telephone, heart of him a unable to resume arrive, one light, remain unchanged laughing at calm in the face of prune, some awkwardness much that he is obvious. Following supper, draw near light bridge little store of flowing water still, all what of gram reduce a lot, absent-minded sunddenly, force oneself not to think, but not all right. The river is quiet to have a bad temper, but seldom fall ill, live in the hospital in such a temper of hers, wonder how to get along with others.
Prune call him two, all gram realize own forgetting oneself. He smiles, visit the hands that hands patted on the prune, covers up the awkwardness just now. The prune draws him and says softly: "Let's go back. "
That evening, all gram dream river quiet disease must die soon, shout struggling: "You all bully me "Wake up at mid-night, can not fall asleep again. Wait until daybreak with great difficulty, only see oneself in the mirror, a face is wan and sallow. While having a bath, the prune has already tidied up the luggage appropriately, has still held two tickets in the hand. She says with a smile: "Let's go back. "
Seem reticent on the road to go back. Prune anything ignore, hold all hand of gram, read plane wear the cloud quiet, the sky outside window is blue and almost transparent.
For a good while, the prune is held all faces of grams in hands, say conscientiously: "I want you to finish walking in this life carefully, next lifetime, I will seek you early, will not wait until so late. "
All gram is listened to so that the tear has flowed.
They have speech say good-bye, all gram see the big bus of the prune to leave in year straight, have just started the machine and dialed the quiet mobile phone number of river, say: "I have come back. "
Just as all gram expecting, enter the door, Jiang Jing is facing toward a nurse and lose the temper. Nurse see someone come, loud to produce one breath, it walks to escape. Jiang Jing is really ill, it is being a bit wan and sallow that people are looking at, but did not stop complaining. All gram hear just, explain, refute either, until she longwinded and tired, under hand to draw him sleep. She still talks in whispers in one's sleep: "All gram, you are out, they all bully me. "
Dusk, outside the window in the shallow light, all gram see these piece make oneself the wife's woman in 8 years. He has chosen her, oneself is used to her reliance too. She like prune, prune, no matter how many men does it meet, will treasure, the love, but the wife is different, if he leaves her, she will run into the man of bad temper in the future, this lifetime, it is hurt and wronged to receive. He is unwilling to lose her, hate to part with her to receive the grievance, unwilling So, he chooses, accompanies with her until old.
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Love in ideal and reality
coolpogirl | 24 November, 2009 02:27
Love in ideal and reality
Love of ideal, want, accompany, in about lover, listen to her act like a child, let her to be mischievous constantly always, inquire after one's well-being with her, let her add the clothing and reduce the clothing Share somebody's cares and burdens for him and solve problem, give counsel for him, sets everything up for him We among reality can morning and evening,it accompany constantly, last ends of the earth even. But " when two feelings are if for a long time, in the morning and evening " .
The love in the love ideal in ideal and reality is wanting to be given to he or her best life who is one's own, the best present, the most expensive ornaments We may not be certain to have that condition to allow us to spend freely in this way in realistic! We in diligent struggle, for bright future, for being each other life more!
The love in the ideal, always think two people get along happily, the happiness is accompanied, do not quarrel over, coexist harmoniously We fall into the convention unavoidably in realistic, bicker to the trival matters, jealous for minor matter, quarrel over the individual character But we are learning to tolerate, learn to forgive, our emotion is in break-in!
The love in the ideal, it is the philtrum dragons and phoenixes to always want to look for a lover, the elite of the men, the masterpieces of the women Reality someone outside the people, have mountain outside the mountain, than have! But one's own lover is the best forever in one's own eyes, love is blind!
The love in the ideal may really have differences with reality always, the ideal is bright, and reality is cruel; But perhaps the ideal one does not suit you, but that suited you is not perhaps in your ideal, choose yes you, the heart belongs to you!
Love one for being predestined
Have you discovered to? The feeling of the love, always felt very happy at the beginning, did not always feel lonely any more at last. Someone thinks of you, longs for you at least, no matter what is done, can only be together, it is good. But slowly, as mutual understanding being the deeper, you begin to find the other side's shortcoming, then one problem continues one and happens, you begin to be irritated and tired, even want to escape. Someone says that is picking up the stone in just as the love, always want to find a suitable and one's own one, but how do you know when to find? She suits you, then do you suit her again? In fact, the love is just as rubing the stone, perhaps just you were not the satisfaction when finding, but people are flexible, a lot of things can change, so long as you have courage intentionally, instead of picking up the unknown stone everywhere, it would be better to waste the stone had oneself bright and polish well, do you begin to rub?
Someone says: While drinking, it is the most comfortable that six points of drunk ones are tipsy. While having a meal, seven points of full sense of achievement are the most comfortable. If you continue, take also, can the stomach will be uncomfortable probably, totally lose the fun of having a meal. When you love a person, the love reached eight fen absolutely just just well. All expectation and hope is seven or eight fen, two or three fen is used for loving oneself. If you still continue more love, will possibly give the other side a heavy pressure, let each other and gasp for breath, has totally lost the fun of the love. The friend asked me that day: How make, can be regarded as and love man on earth? I tell him smiling: Love of everybody view different in fact, getting right to shout, convince by patient analysis, afraid wrong to become and mislead instead! If you are perplexed for love, perhaps this following passage can give you some enlightenment: Love a person, will understand, should open and solve too; Apologize, should express one's gratitude too; Admit a fault, should correct one's mistakes too; Show consideration for, should show understanding too; Accept, but not stand; Tolerant, but not connive at; Support, but not control; Salute, but not interrogate; Pour out, but not accuse; Unforgettable, but not forget; Exchange each other, but not everything is explained; Pray for quietly for the other side, but not to a great deal of requirements of the other side; Can be romantic, but don't waste; Can lead along by hand at any time. Don't say good-bye if you accomplish, even you love man no longer at will, cherish the memory of too, but will not cherish hatred ~~
I nothing does not understand, love or like one only predestined sometimes in fact ~~
Xiang Ai, eight points of feet
Unless love by one very much, unless will leading by the nose he, evil spirit battle while ordering,at all can't oneself. From then on, you had not had one's own thought, had not had one's own happiness, anger, grief and joy, you regard him as the centre, follow him when together, you are the whole world; Not when with him, the world is him.
Love a person very much, will stand him unprincipledly, he gets used to this kind to connive at slowly, have devotion to regard you as him, will feel you to be very irritated, no individual too, even begin to despise, I am afraid I have been a poor host, do not respect you
Love a person very much, you are tantamount to a candle, burn disregarding own safety, it is only light and heat tried to get for the moment. Wait for the candle to burn off, you have nothing. And the other side is only a flashlight, he can put the new battery constantly, keeps vigor forever.
Love a person very much, it is kind that he will get used to you to him, and has forgotten oneself should be paid, have forgotten you need to receive the equal repayment equally too --He is totally spoilt by you. Don't think you love the other side he can love 10 of you too very much, love was unreasonable, so frequently, the love is unequal.
No, the ones that don't like liking alone are forgotten oneself completely. The so physical and mental love should only appear in the novel, the love in all desperation that this society the less welcomes. Give him breathing space, leave a leeway for oneself too --The love that the moth puts out the fire, no doubt let people feel majestic when going on, when he becomes, how do you tidy up the wolf membership of taking a place? Put into so many, could you face that heavy loss?
So, loving a person mustn't like getting ten fen, eight fen has been already enough. Two fen left, is used for loving oneself. But 100,000 reason to love him it fights to be a reason to love him too!
Love me, not really taking too much, eight fen is enough. Having lacked, I will be sad, prove I do not have enough in your weight at heart, it is not enough to love me yet for you; And many, will injure me, because besides the love, we need life and friend, too much, will make me at a loss. Love me, only need eight fen, treasure me, believe in me, and what I reciprocated to you will be loving you too, treasure you, believe in you!
A in fact accurate one say, in love to take eight only, love and happy the love. The love very much, let us unable to bear each other, from the marriage of going of love, it is not a person's choice, the love is two people's business, the marriage is the mutual trust, forbearing and conciliatory, and understand, you love him, give him two points of freedom, the space believing in each other, love me, please love eight fen, everybody has one's own world, but don't injure the other side, eight points of love, not incomplete, but perfect!
The life is a kind of course
Dense coffee and tea, it is vividdest and bitter and fragrant to only sample and can feel it carefully.
People are from young to old and feeble, there is far different scenery at every stages. Thus the life is then a series of development. In this course, people have experienced that should experience, just this course begins and terminates the difference without any, but course with real meaning for life.
Its result of doing a thing is no doubt important, but I think, the course of doing something is more important, result ready we will happy after all, but course to can let life of us substantiate. The last result of people's life must be the death, in fact the life is nonsensical, oneself give life one meaning that hope realize just, so course to enjoy life a kind of meaning.
The most important thing is to be self-controlled as the ordinary person, when close to the coda in course of the lifing, turning one's head on the road that oneself passed by, you only say one sentence: My efforts, has struggled, not repentant that this is grown. At least, your life bears although not rich but energetic fruit. Only a sad one is that the life can not come again, make sure not to be hasty, the steady step put, move ahead actively! The life is very very brief, the life limits very much, and we should excavate out to U.S.A. from this short limitation of urging to become reconciled. So long as live meaningfully, course of the life is a kind of beauty.
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The clear place of autumn, the deciduous elder brother is yellow
coolpogirl | 16 February, 2009 03:26The clear place of autumn, the deciduous elder brother is yellow She goes out of the reign of terror at a slim and graceful pace, pushes a thousand rock thin, floating clouds aside with the still ice-cold hands. Ten thousand golden lights, mottled foot puts the green field, the stream is gurgling, trickle all one's life purely. Everything at the moment is calm as if being cut off from the outside world for agesly, but how to know, once failed to see the weapons, do not know in the dream it is a guest. Put down all that should put down, she make blow place person. Let in the mountain poorly, Ann enjoys and offers as a gift the independence generation; Ren Jiao holds deep blue to decrease, she detests and rejects the human society in this world. While coming for the first time, she builds the thatched cottage of a bamboo grove with both hands, although is simple and crude and also smooth. Later, through constant renovation, the thatched cottage was elegant day by day. Xi Jian, studying, reciting a poem, sampling tea, blowing the xiao ...... It is not very uninteresting to her to live in seclusion and live. But she knows, it is not the native land to regard as the place of home by her. On being blue and green and original, it is several ones that has after twists of hers that do not occupy. Although the humble room is small, can also indulge world. With the passage of time, fly to the north of each wild goose's word, suddenly, she experienced lonelily, unprecedented loneliness. Only accidental chilly dusk set, such as the setting sun, only one spring flower silence wither, she wished eagerly to go in spring in winter unexpectedly, flowers blooming like a piece of brocade. Perhaps it is the arrangement of the destiny, a strange woman seeming to have met before smiles and enters into her pure land. Oneself is the ice, she is the jade; The ice is apt to melt, the jade is fragile. Completely clean hearts of two people reflect each other, the brilliant rays overflow. Later, the pyrrhic dance is crossing, the musical instrument xiao chirps jointly, ten thousand ancient musical pipes are quiet. On the first, the string was broken sometimes, one has all gone melodiously, she knows, it is the stranger that comes to invade. From then on, it is no longer the dawn at dawn, is no longer dusk at dusk, the sun rose struggling, fall drainedly again. The old friend is difficult to move to see again, what former times is the present and the past? She is carrying one's own down and out heart, walked close to the deeply attached to each other abyss that she had not discovered step by step at last ...... All of his, her everything! Large a word in the life of her - -Follow. Then, not occupying falling bluely and greenly emptily originally, summer passes by, the clear place of autumn, the deciduous elder brother is yellow. I collect a stretch of withered general term for paulownia, phoenix tree and tung tree, look over stunned, then understand this green hill is barren: In samsara four seasons, how dully green hill is looked at! ! But it is not old, the mountain does not end, is her fan alone ......
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Melody that I forgets with heart
coolpogirl | 08 December, 2008 03:00
Melody that I forgets with heart
Time left, it was once happiness that took away, and once regret. Having missed and gone, it was endless pain of injury that was left, there is endless sigh.
Having left so long, recall one suddenly, that kind of desolate sense really lets me can't bear to injure my heart. Can't bear to see my helpless appearance. Will it really be me? Visit and go between despair and illusion, dissociate on the rational edge in a mess. I have fantasies of giving me a bright hope in the future when being unhappy. I am thrown realistically to the low ebb but reasonably when being happy. Is this an arrangement that Heaven gives to me? To go far kindred, indifference of friendship, love remote, let me feel more life original loneliness not going far gradually. I never tell one's fortune.
I forget who oneself is, I forget I lives for anyone, fragile, impatient, make me unable to be forgotten wilfully. Think about oneself is really very hard! Live comfortably, live arduously, one such life state is really not so good as living arduously, live and have some sophisticated appeals to live even more comfortably. Not really imagining oneself sometimes, really there is nothing one day, everything is done from the beginning, oneself also can have in the past fighting will and courage, nowadays really face oneself, always one kind is unable to speak tenderness explained and is difficult to forget. Mood unable and broad and level, have more difficult mental states, sleep, read one article that " learn happy to receive own " rather say with feeling recently. Really happy to receive the tour that oneself will let us really understand the life that vary the post ceaselessly, no matter hardships and agony, no matter successes and failures, will be what we must bear.
The intelligent, well-informed person in what is called life, should be that kind of person not losing the heart of a newborn baby all one's life. They are sincere, friendly; They are optimistic, upwards. The forever spotless heart is revered and unable to be forgotten by people! But a kind of loneliness in my heart lets me have to collect love and passion getting up in the heart, sincere and friendly. In this strange and spacious city, strange and cold and detached people can't forgive your cowardliness. Perhaps this is grief of the human nature. The sex of the beginning of the so-called people is originally kind, perhaps the good light of love of the human nature has been refracted as time passes, in the face of the loved person, the heart is torn to bits. Become cold in the face of the strange heart. Pessimistic and worldweary, the happy person that has no longer is really so pitiful. Am I thinking sometimes my life is really like this? Have I really forgotten my most sincerity worthy to be proud in the heart?
Carnegie has said, the ones that can influence people most in the world are to let him know what is needed most, then tell him how to go to get? Life tells me, it is strong and face that what I need most is, what I can't forget most should be my kind-heartedness and originally really, my far more thanning is painful and unfortunate that life offers. Wenchuan misfortune behind the earthquake let I alarming baffled suddenly, have something can't let me give up really, color that can't be joyous. When the first line, going through once in life, what money, status, reputation mind really in the face of life and death. So long as my family are all safe and healthy, the biggest happy and happiness of all one's life that it is me. Think about sometimes people are alive why bother very tired, was the psychology of a kind of life in life at that time, naturally instead of hope though life let we to some extent can. But so long as our justice has not returned to marching towards the goal of life taking care of, it is believed that we will find the happiness which belong to us. Suddenly the sensible person seems to never living die, the meaning of never this living sentence that people seemed again. Really too much time left in our slackness midstream. Too much blank passage page each pay, sow too much regrets life in us.
It is only a way to survive to live, it is a kind of best explanation of the life that love, because it is light that the life can't bear, because the life refuses mediocrely and degenerating.
Love is repaying best to life, take out our passion and intelligence, every day to spend our life. While we are still young, go to chase the one's own dream! The world is so rich and colorful, so long as you pay the kindred friendship and kindhearted, will even strange and cold and detached person be infected by you and the encouragement. This is a kindhearted person's innate intuitive knowledge. It is a theme in the life too.
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